my lessons in tease, orgasm denial and Femdom control training


I have created this blog to chronicle my training while in the service of Mistress Cassandra. The image you see is the tag I wear 24/7 as a constant reminder of my commitment. Note that this blog contains elements and discussions of an adult nature. If this disturbs you please go elsewhere. If this interests you, please feel free to look around and enjoy yourself. Comments of a respectful nature are always welcome.

your host and Her servant, q


9 responses

  1. q

    Respectful comments are always welcome

    October 28, 2010 at 6:22 am

    • sissydog

      Hello Q,

      Mistress Cassandra suggested to post you this:

      I am gathering data wearing my MM device, try hard to get all the fine tuning for a second device. I tought that maybe your 24/7 long term chastity experience might answer some questions. My device is the MatureMetal QueensKeep. It feels great but I know I will want to upgrade soon for the perfect 24/7 device for me. I would like to have your opinion and/or advice.

      Feel free to send them me an e-mail, so I could get back with details…
      Congrats for you blog!

      September 14, 2011 at 9:57 am

      • q

        Thank you sissydog, I’ll be in touch.

        September 15, 2011 at 7:39 am

  2. drummer

    In your signature line, “your host and servent” possibly should be “your host and servant.” (Servent is a legitimate word that means a peer-to-peer networking node.)

    March 31, 2011 at 6:00 pm

    • q

      Thank you drummer for catching this error! It has been corrected.

      April 1, 2011 at 2:00 am

  3. Houdini

    Hi Q.

    I have enjoyed reading your feedback both about the DL2K and the watchful mistress device. I have recently received a DL2K myself. Like you, I am interested in a metal device to use as electrodes. However, I have one question regarding your solution. You mentioned electrical isolation using heatshrink on the locking pin and the use of a plastic lock. My question is, has your use of this solution progressed? In particular, I am interested to hear if you have found a solution to enable you to use a security screw for locking. The plastic lock solution provides electrical isolation, but not the tamper proof security that I would wish to have.

    What I am thinking is a combination of both solutions. As well as heat shrink on the pin, would it be possible to have a screw created that had a groove created with a lathe and coated with heatshrink to prevent contact with the pin part of the chastity device? The thread component would then only be on the far ends of the screw and only make contact with the cage – not the pin part. I hope you can understand from my description what I am thinking.

    October 14, 2011 at 10:19 am

    • q

      Greetings Houdini,

      Congratulations on the DL2K! With a handle like “Houdini” maybe you need two locks? 🙂

      I understand what you are requesting, but I think the solution is much simpler. The attachment of the base ring electrode is via a threaded hole at the end of the pin. When used with the DL2K ring terminal, or with a small stainless washer whose diameter is greater than the inside diameter of the cage collar, the cage cannot be removed since the collar will no longer slip off the end of the pin. If you don’t have access to the custom tool to loosen this security screw, you cannot remove the cage. With this approach, you don’t need to penetrate the collar and pin with a second security screw that could short the two together. The only down side to not having this screw is that the cage will have more freedom to rotate around the pin but this could be solved by using a non-conductive pin or screw.

      Please let me know if this works for you,

      Regards and welcome to the future of male management!

      October 14, 2011 at 6:28 pm

  4. Houdini

    Thanks for the followup. The screw at the end will provide the security I seek. However, I am still interested to pursue a partially insulated security screw to stop the cage from rotating. As you already have a device in hand, do you believe this would work?

    October 17, 2011 at 7:23 pm

    • Houdini

      Update / good news. I have had a chat to the maturemetal folks. I think we have an answer. They said….

      I see what you are saying and it would seem like it would work but if you did that the only threads on it would be on one side and it would only be about 1/16″ of thread. I do like your thought process. I could do what you are saying but weld a stainless nut on the side of the locking collar. It should work…. I think it would work….

      Next task for me is to pick which MatureMetal device to order! Comments or feedback welcome!

      For me, I have a fairly wide girth and getting into a CB3000 requires the stocking method. The holes in the top of the CB3000 cause some pain after any extended wear due to the skin bulging out of the holes. However, I am still able to wiggle my cock out of the CB3000. I have not yet tried getting back in, but with a stocking it may be possible. I also have a BON4. There is more room in the BON4 which allows my cock to move inside and to reach orgasm, and escape is fairly easy – even with the smallest ring.

      The goal then is to pick a device that does not have holes where I can bulge to ensure the device is comfortable, prevents mastrubation, dreamlover compatible, and most importantly – no escape. I know I am searching for the holy grail, but it would be good to get feedback.

      October 20, 2011 at 3:26 am

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